Discipleship Resources

Each week we provide discussion questions and resources to to accompany the previous Sunday sermon. These resources are designed to both theologically and practically challenge us, grow our knowledge of God & His word and further deepen our relationships with Jesus.

We encourage you to take time to discuss & pray over the questions and resources. Our hope and prayer is, that this would be another way we can grow into loving and mature disciples of Jesus, here at Reality Honolulu.

The Attributes Of God | God is Love 

Week of 08.14.24

‭‭1 John‬ ‭4‬:‭7‬ ‭CSB‬‬

“Dear friends, let us love one another, because love is from God, and everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.”


He Chose Us 

Ephesians 1:4-5 NIV

“For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love 5 he predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure.”

  1. When God says that he chose us and that we are adopted as his children, how does that change our lives? Have you ever felt alone or orphaned? 

  2. When we talk about love, it often is described in the form of loss, rejection or searching and not finding it. What areas in your life have you faced like this?

  3. God says come as you are but you won’t leave the same. What difficult things has God asked you to bring to him that ended up working for Good?

Knowing God Through Love 

‭‭1 John‬ ‭4‬:‭7‬ ‭CSB‬‬

“Dear friends, let us love one another, because love is from God, and everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.”

  1. God is the very essence of love and you can’t experience love apart from God. Has there been a situation in your life where God had to work to give you the love you needed for someone? 

  2. What can we learn about the nature of  Love by viewing the biblical story, from the fall to Christ's resurrection?

  3. How do we receive God's love in a valley? 

  4. What part does community play in experiencing God's love? Put Bible verse for community 

Living a Life of Love 

1 corinthians 13:4-7 NIV

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

  1. What is your definition of love and how does that change In light of 1 Corinthians 13?

  2. How can we be empowered to live a life full of this kind of Love? 

  3. It’s easy to feel loving towards someone when they’re nice to us or when we’re having a good day, but often life is not like that and we can find ourselves in valleys. How can we live from a place of love when we don’t feel it?

  4. What will happen if we don’t live from Love? Name actions, examples.


Dive Deeper Questions 

  1. What does it look like to love someone you don’t agree with in the church? Give an example from a primary and secondary issue. 

  2. How can we put on Christ's love for someone who has harmed us?

  3. Often the enemy will try to cause us to hate ourselves out of shame for the things we’ve done. How can we walk in God’s love for ourselves too?

Dive Deeper Resources 

• Dr. Bruce Wauchope: The Undiluted Gospel Conference 2018 (Youtube)

• Simon Ponsby: The Holy Spirit Conference Session 1, 4 Love (from Bridgetown Podcast)